Thread subject: ARE YOU AGUAGUAT ENOUGH? :: Real talk here - how would you handle it?

Posted by hashbud on 06/05/2017 10:41

People of many apparently different mindsets tend to find their way to this site with an array of curiosities and experiences. Yep that's a statement that's a 'no duh, no shit' warranted response, I know. However, over the years and now more recently, which is one reason why I'm posting this, there have been questions have been posed by curious people to me about what if someone joined who was this relationship to you, what would you do? How would you feel? How would you react?

I take this in the context of not knowing beforehand who people who (request to) join the more 'sensitive' levels of member groups, until the request is made and content is uploaded. So partly to see what membership and visitors alike's tendencies are toward it, seeing as how a few get apprehensive and afraid about certain topics. Also too, the topic does fit the theme so is fair game discussion.

Okay, so people have asked, what if someone requests to join and in doing so I find out it's someone like a cousin or a cousin's spouse, a close friend, my brother and his wife or brother-in-law and my sister. As a result of a recent discussion too, someone even asked what if my adult daughter or son and wife. Extreme questions. I have my ready answer but have never replied with it to those who asked.

So, in the interest of discussion since, as Nic has been probing us all about there being very little of, I pose that question to y'all. What if you (being sarcastic to those who are not private members) got the balls one day to be real and became a PM, and either discovered upon joining or someone joins after you, a relative such as the above mentioned is in the membership?

People have very off the cuff knee jerk responses to everything. don't knee jerk it. How would you REALLY react or receive the situation?

I can guess those who will likely respond. So for those who haven't said jack to this date, or have said very little (yeah you members, restricted group, contributor group people), surprise me.

Edited by hashbud on 01/01/1970 10:00