Sentiments of old sites…
You know the tropical island culture. No, not the tourists’ view of paradise, but the one those who are from the islands know. You cannot always speak your mind because family frowns on your unpopular or non-politically correct views. You hesitate to do what pleases you because you’re looked upon and “judged” by everyone around you. Everyone’s into your business because the family and community ties are so closely and tightly woven into the very fabric of your life. The culture is such that the social norms are dictated to you as how you should act, feel and be. Kinda claustrophobic, huh?
Now envision your adult life, your relationships, your sexual appetite. You gotta be conventional, right? Or you’re supposed to and are very much expected to be in the public eye. Does your lust wander from your spouse/partner just for the sake of some kinky sex? Maybe you and your partner ever so secretly lust for some extracurricular fun. You swap partners on the sly, your partner and you enjoy threesomes, or you like watching. Maybe you wonder if you’re the only ones who think and feel like this? Nah, you know others on the island do the same thing. But how do you know? How do you know who they are? Maybe if you could somehow find a way to get into the secret circle of the “underground” couples who get into alternative sex, life could be more exciting. But you don’t know how to, because the swapping and contact parties go on so deeply protected from public view that it’s like a world that secretly exists within the one you see.
Then there are even more people who don’t live that life but might as well. You know those types, the ones who cheat openly, who let it go when their partners cheat, the ones who have “outside” kids and the like. But yet when approached with the subject of sharing, casual sex in the context of swapping, they totally freak out.
I share in secret, in privacy, what wifey and I do, have done in our marriage. Photos, videos. I want others to know who we are in that explicit way, but only those who do so too.